For every BIG Hero there has to be a tiny little villain. Thanks for being there. I withdraw.

Btw, I don't 'consider' myself a Hero here - 5112 pieces of trash that I have posted here over the last 51 months have catapulted me to that position. I am who I am.

"Booked and promised are two things" ?  What do we expect... sending a formal contract on 50 rupees stamp paper ? A "sorry" was said, but not accepting responsibility for what happened even negates that.

It is clearly posted on this thread that the battery is booked for VC.  Hence it is expected based on forum etiquette that it be honored, unless VC voluntarily lets go.

Un-necessary negative feedback by Rohit will be removed.

Actually Rohit, you are right on all counts. I deserve that negative rating to jerk me back to my senses. I was a fool to take on a plebeian kid like you. I should have respected my experience and age.

Let me not 'suppress this hobby' any more and feed some of my models to the dogs and then sell the scraps on this forum to pay for my child's education (who is probably older than you are).

Thank you.

Thank you Sir, for being there. Thanks again for removing a particular thread from the Chatter Zone, I was requesting for its deletion as it disappeared.

cancelled one booking , said sry , got -ve feedback , thats what i get , thanks everyone.

-ve feedback would have been justified , if vc would have been paid to me , giving -ve feedback jst for canceling booking without any money transaction is not justifed i guess.

what if i would have lied to vc abt battery , would have said that "battery is dead , checked with meter" or anything like that ??
still would anyone here consider -ve feedback for that justified??

i decided to stick with the truth and told him that battery is given to someone else.
that was my mistake , i must have lied to him..

bcoz its "kalyug" , truth will be punished everywhere. thanks everone.

Rohit256, sorry for asking, how old are you?

does that matter to you , coz i made a decision of giving stuff to new comer rather than giving to a experienced person like u.
my intentions were to support that person , not cheating or double dealing with you (which never happened).

One more sign we are living in Kalyug... "you book something for someone and give to some one else BEFORE/WITHOUT first informing and canceling the booking".

i do informed him anwar sir.

You informed him that "it is given".  Did not ask him "Sir, you are experienced, may I give it to this newcomer" before giving it to someone else.

There is a big difference between the two. But you seem to be blind to this big difference which everyone else here can clearly see.  That is the only issue here.

Anwar Sahab, just trying to establish his age as a matter of curiosity. If he is as young as I think he is, it doesn't behove me to give him a negative rating, in hindsight.

May I be excused for requesting you to cancel my negative rating to him, after all my child is 19 years old and I think Rohit is younger. Whatever be the circumstances. May we please wipe the slate clean, as far as we can? I know I over reacted, as usual. Mea culpa.

I hope Rohit and I will both edit our previous posts and maintain civility in this forum.

ok , i admit that , but i also said sry to him at that time , apologized to him also??
what abt that??

Quote from: VC on March 01, 2014, 12:31:34 AM
May I be excused for requesting you to cancel my negative rating to him, after all my child is 19 years old and I think Rohit is younger. Whatever be the circumstances. May we please wipe the slate clean, as far as we can? I know I over reacted, as usual. Mea culpa.

I was about to suggest that same to you.  I am going to remove the negative rating. I hope the seller realizes that bookings are promises, and promises can be broken only with permission from the promised.

Quote from: rohit256 on March 01, 2014, 12:32:59 AM
ok , i admit that , but i also said sry to him at that time , apologized to him also??
what abt that??

Some day you will realize that the 5 letter word does not fix/mend every mistake you do.

PS: Wish people at least typed in the 5 letters !

AAALL EEJ WEEELLL.

Now come on Rohit Lad, we have a big mess to clean up and it is waaay past my bedtime. Start editing / deleting all those horrible things we said to each other. I will do the same.

and now in the above post VC is saying that he over reacted to this matter??

selling to someone , or not selling to someone is one's own wish , whatever may the reason be , informing the other person is his duty , which i did , expecting seller to say sry is not compulsory , but i did so also , after all this , giving -ve feedback and raising the issue in public again , just to contempt him , thats justified??

i think i m really too young to understand all this.

ok one last question to VC , was that -ve feedback given by u was justified ??, in my eyes - feedback means a lot , n shuld be used in failure cases like money frouds n all...

Quote from: VC on March 01, 2014, 12:35:47 AM
AAALL EEJ WEEELLL.

Now come on Rohit Lad, we have a big mess to clean up and it is waaay past my bedtime. Start editing / deleting all those horrible things we said to each other. I will do the same.

yeah considering that i m equally sensible and responsible like u

Quote from: rohit256 on March 01, 2014, 12:45:12 AM
selling to someone , or not selling to someone is one's own wish , whatever may the reason be

Sure. But making and breaking promises is what VC highlighted, which is absolutely true in your case. Anyone dealing with you tomorrow might have to suffer the same fate. They will stay under the impression that you are checking for shipping options, while you start acting all charitable, without realizing that keeping your word is more important than charity ! It was right for VC to highlight that.

Quote from: rohit256 on March 01, 2014, 12:45:12 AM
informing the other person is his duty , which i did

I already made this clear. You informed him, in essence, "that you are not a person who keeps his word, and for that you are sorry".  I hope you understand it now, when I put it that way.

I will make this simple for you. Put yourself in VCs shoes, and it will all become clear to you.  Or ask anyone else who has been on this forum long enough, how you would feel to be bumped off arbitrarily from a deal.

It is better that you realize, admit and try your best not to repeat what you did now. The more you argue, the more awkward and childish you look like.

VC saying he *may* have over-reacted, *assuming* you are too young to realize the importance of keeping your promises. He did not admit any guilt by saying so, he just acted his age.

I am not sure my typing all this will get into your head, based on your responses so far

yeah i got it all sir , but -ve feedback was too much for me in this little case.............thats all wanted to say.and thanks to you sir which was removed.

Perhaps I did over react and reposed my faith in the inherent goodness of human beings.

Anwar Sahab, we are wasting our time on this guy. He is shameless and hardened. My other feeling is that this is his duplicate id. He is a member on this forum under a different handle. I'll PM you my thoughts on this issue.

Hmmm. I would suggest that this discussion be closed here.

Doesn't look like he is interested in making amends. In that case, my negative rating was justified. Should I go ahead and reinstate it? His cocky attitude certainly seems to deserve it. Or should I let this slide? What is good for the forum?