In his perception, breaking a promise is not the same as taking money and not delivering the goods, and negative feedback is for such grave offenses.

Let this one slide.

I guess the thing that he does not realize is that taking money and not delivering goods causes law enforcement (police) to knock on your doors. And negative feedback is about reputation, and reputation is what causes people to "behave gentlemanly" on public venues.

Wilco Sir. Unfortunately, all this collective maturity and kindness is wasted on this hardened kid. His perceptions are very different from ours and I fear that this travesty, shall not be his last. What is worse is that his world condones his actions and accepts him.

C'est la vie.

Quote from: anwar on March 01, 2014, 01:15:05 AM
I guess the thing that he does not realize is that taking money and not delivering goods causes law enforcement (police) to knock on your doors. And negative feedback is about reputation, and reputation is what causes people to "behave gentlemanly" on public venues.

i dont know , how should i explain that Mr VC never paid me , i never gave him my bank details , he never transferred me any money , should i post my bank account statement history here ,lol??
anwar sir , your words are absolutely correct abt frauds , but in this deal there was no money transaction with Mr.VC .
with this last msg , i quit as i think i have clarified myself enough.

Are you dumb or acting dumb ? Did anyone here say you took VC's money ?

My words are just as true about people's lameness where they break promises made to people, then justify themselves shamelessly by saying "sry".

And FYI, negative feedback in your case was fully justified. The negative feedback did not say you took his money. It clearly said you cannot be trusted because you will, at your whim and fancy, sell stuff promised to someone to others.

Everyone here has seen what you did wrong, and how you are beating around the bush and not admitting to the wrong you did, just because you were kind enough to say "sry" !

If you took VC's money and not give him the item, you will earn lots of negative feedback on this forum + the police will knock on your door.

If you told VC that the item is booked, then cowardly give it to someone else without letting him know, you will earn a negative feedback here. That is how this forum works for everyone, not just you. Now deal with that as long are you are here.

Quote from: anwar on March 01, 2014, 01:15:05 AM
I guess the thing that he does not realize is that taking money and not delivering goods causes law enforcement (police) to knock on your doors. And negative feedback is about reputation, and reputation is what causes people to "behave gentlemanly" on public venues.

"he" in first line clearly states that you are pointing towards me abt taking money and not delivering goods....!!
well i was dumb enough to recognize that.

You are dumb enough to NOT understand that the above sentence is only about "when you think negative feedback should be applied", and does NOT at all imply that you took any money. It only means "in your mind, negative feedback is when people take money and the person does not keep his promise (but in that case, he will also get a police case against him)".

Ask anyone else to read this thread, and they will tell you that no one here accuses you of taking money.

And I guess you have no comments on the below part, which is what really matters ?

Quote from: anwar on March 01, 2014, 04:07:54 AM
If you told VC that the item is booked, then cowardly give it to someone else without letting him know, you will earn a negative feedback here. That is how this forum works for everyone, not just you. Now deal with that as long are you are here.

And as a parting note, I will totally support you giving someone else a "negative feedback" if they arbitrarily cancelled a booking. This is not about "rohit", it is about etiquette. It is about the fact that a "booking is a promise", which should be honored unless there are situations beyond one's control (which is not the case here).

i think enough has been discussed here , forum members are a lot more sensible than me to understand the whole scene happened here. so i request to end this topic here at this point.
i love this hobby and would continue with it in this forum genuinely , if allowed.

Yes, forum members generally do not break bookings arbitrarily, and glad to see you also understand that now.

Locking and moving to "Completed".

Please start another thread on what is left for sale.